Thanks Zsolt,
Yes, you do understand what i mean.
"so google will see that the new domain got so many links so quick as it is a redirected old site."
The only thing i am afraid of is if i contact the sites and they change the link from the old to the new site, and i get many to do so quickly, google might frown up, because i am gaining to many links to fast wich are not 301-ed.