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This is why i asked for a legit way, because i know some tactics i have used are not so great, and better to know now than continue on doing the same thing that can affect me negatively later.

It seems i have been going about it the wrong way, but i am glad to realize this sooner than late, so i can adjust the way i build links from other known places. I have tried Dmoz.org, but not entirely sure how it works, i know i should submit when it shows i can, and if it has an editor in that section as well, but i never have any luck with that one.

I appreciate you're response, i am kind of new to this work, so any mistakes of mine can be adjusted and fixed. I've had the site on close to a month now, the reciprocal links was a jump start, but i didn't really concentrate much on that, the contact form was added pretty quick, basically i wanted to add some essentials a site would have, but i lost track sometimes, so instead of perfecting the theme, i just added some posts. The pictures are mostly taken from me, and mainly what what you can do to the photos are crop them onto the covers of social sites like fb, twitter,google+, even for cell phone backgrounds. I would like to add a login for people to want to submit their own pictures if it belongs to them. Its a long road but i need some terms and conditions and all those things, but i am a beginner and i am grateful for you're thoughts on this matter.  Also theres not many pictures because i try to work on each of them when attempting to build links from those specific pages, rather than adding dozens of pictures at once, not sure which one works best.

I have a wallpaper website that i just made and bought a template that looks fine for the site so far for a month now, and i wanted to know what steps i cant take to better rank my site and build some traffic along the way. I use only specific directories, not sure how to get a press release done and also link back to other sites from pages that get a decent amount of traffic where i can leave a link to it, of course not leaving any type of spammy looking comments. This is the site i am working on right now, freehdwallpapers.be

I have linked back from a few sites already, i look at the alexa rank if it will show a number at one point, the sites worth is still pretty low, and also i have added social networks on the site which has gained a number of followers to this day, so i got work to do still. I just don't want to go on about it the wrong way and get penalized by google.