Thank you all for your excellent answers
I was definitely not asking for permission. I guess I was expressing frustration and looking for answers.
I have an advantage over my competitors in that I own the copyright to everything I do so i can create content for every client, that can include, the audio track I produce for them, the lyrics of their song, possibly video, and the text telling their story. The main reason for doing this is to enable them to share it with friends and family, but I am aware that I should get an SEO bonus from it too.
The other site created another 170 fake search engine pages this month. It isn't that they don't have content at the front end of their site, but I think people will read the home page, and if they like what they see get the phone number or fill in the contact form. I think that approach will effect their bounce rate.
My approach has been to encourage the visitors to watch a video to see a fully personalized singing telegram n action but more importantly the reactions of the people's faces. The plan is that they will stay on the site longer, and that that will eventually improve my site in Google's eyes..
I don't want to take the cheater route, even if it got me to number one.
Thanks for your replies. Much appreciated